Dog Collars: An accessory, usually cute, used for the purpose of displaying your dog’s tags and information. This is the ONLY purpose dog collars have, and should be used for nothing else.Let’s discuss. Collars go around a dog’s neck, where their trachea lives. This lovely organ is also known as the windpipe and is...
Bully Breeds Are Not The Bullies
We condemn stereotyping people, so why not dogs?It takes the fault of a human to wield a weapon, so why does that not apply to dogs?Why do we insist another species comply with human social standards and rules, when they cannot comprehend human morality? Then blame them for what they cannot understand? A devastating...
An Open Letter from Bully Breeds
An original poem written in honor of the XL Bully’s in the United Kingdom and all the angels that heaven will gain far too soon. May you rest in the sweetest of paradise, and may humans change their ways.Written December 2023 To dog’s best friend, It’s not my fault.I didn’t ask for this,I didn’t...
Comfortably Uncomfortable
The thing about our ego, which happens to be the facilitator of what lives in the subconscious, is that the comfort zone is home. The ego will do anything to keep you in that comfort zone, with it’s biggest tactics reliant on limiting beliefs and fears. It does this because the ego part of...
25 Lessons from 25 Years of Life
As March 20th was my 26th birthday, I am sharing 25 lessons I have learned on the way here. It has been a wild ride, but such is life, and being able to look back and see how much I have grown and how much I have learned is really cool and definitely an...
WHY Do Inner Work?
Inner work is one of those topics that has blown up, being talked about left and right – everywhere you look on social media now is a mention of inner work. Why? Why is it so important? Why do it? Do you really need to do it? Is it really necessary? All valid questions....
You Did the Best You Could
An Open Letter to my Past Self My beautiful Ashley – You did the best you could, and I need you to know how proud of you I am. I know how hard that is to believe, to feel, because I know how much shame you hold. I know how hard it is for...
Life in Tucson
It’s been 4 months since we moved to Tucson, Arizona, and what a wild 4 months it has been. I knew it would be a big adjustment moving to the other side of the country from where we were born and raised, but it hasn’t just been an adjustment. It’s been a roller coaster,...
Knocking Down the Wall I had Built Around Myself
Thinking back, it was about 8th grade when the wall started getting built… and a wall it was. Not just some rickety old fence that you could get through if you poked it enough times, no, it was more like the Great Wall of China. The Great Wall of Ashley, if you will. Its...
Using Vivid Dreams as a Tool
When I really started diving deep into my inner world and healing, I started having extremely vivid dreams, and sometimes will even lucid dream (which I had never done before). I chalk this up to a raised level of consciousness and awareness of my inner world and all that lies within it. Honestly, half...